How do you deal with an insecure child? (2023)

What is the best way to deal with insecurities?

The kind of childhood you had, past traumas, recent experiences of failure or rejection, loneliness, social anxiety, negative beliefs about yourself, perfectionism, or having a critical parent or partner can all contribute to insecurity.

Insecure attachment may take the form of avoidant, distant behavior or anxious clinging behavior. When children have insecure attachments with their parents, any number of negative consequences can follow, such as depression, anxiety, a lowered ability to cope with stress, and poor relationships with others.

Insecurity may stem from a traumatic event, crisis such as divorce or bankruptcy, or a loss. It can also result from one's environment, as unpredictability or upset in daily life can cause anxiety and insecurity about ordinary, routine events.

According to a study from Yahoo Health of 1,993 women and teens age 13 to 64, feelings of body insecurity can begin from as young as nine or 10 years of age. The study also found that the younger the generation bracket, the earlier the insecurities.

What is an insecure resistant child?

Infants classified as insecure resistant do not seem to be able to use the caregiver as a secure base from which to explore. Their play may be limited and they may seek contact and proximity from the caregiver even before separation occurs.